Sunday, October 7, 2012
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
LETTING GO - is Growing up.
To let go isn’t to forget, not to think about, or ignore.
It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret.
Letting go isn’t about winningor losing.
It’s not about prideand it’s not about how you appear, and it’s not obsessing or dwelling on the past.
Letting go isn’t blockingmemories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness.
It’s not about giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat.
To let go is to cherishthe memories, but to overcome and move on.
It is having an open mind confidence in the future.
Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing.
To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, andmade you grow.
It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain.
Letting go is having the courage to acceptchange, and the strength to keep moving.
HALAGA - Parokya ni Edgar.
Umiiyak ka na namanLangya talaga wala ka bang ibang alamNamumugtong mga mataKailan pa ba kaya ikaw magsasawa
Sa problema na iyong pinapasanHatid sayo ng boyfriend mong hindi mo maintindihan
May kwento kang pandrama na namanParang pang TV na walang katapusanHanggang kailan ka bang ganyanHindi mo ba alam na walang pupuntahanAng pagtiyaga mo dyan sa boyfriend mong tangaNa wala nang ginawa kundi ang paluhain ka
(Chorus)Sa libu-libong pagkakataon na tayoy nagkasamaIilang ulit palang kitang makitang masayaNaiinis akong isipin na ginaganyan ka nyaSiguro ay hindi niya lang alam ang iyongTunay na halaga
Hindi na dapat pag-usapan paNapapagod na rin ako sa aking kakasalitaHindi ka rin naman nakikinigKahit sobrang pagod na ang aking bibig[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/p/parokya_ni_edgar/halaga.html ]Sa mga payo kong di mo pinapansinAkala mo'y nakikinig di rin naman tatanggapin
Ayoko nang isipin paDi ko alam ba't di mo makayanan na iwanan syaAng dami-dami naman diyang ibaWag kang mangangambang baka wala ka nang ibang Makita
Na lalake na magmahal sayoAt hinding hindi nya sasayangin ang pag-ibig mo
(Chorus)Sa libu-libong pagkakataon na tayoy nagkasamaIilang ulit palang kitang makitang masayaNaiinis akong isipin na ginaganyan ka nyaSiguro ay hindi niya lang alam ang iyongTunay na halaga
Minsan hindi ko maintindihanParang ang buhay natin ay napagti-tripanMedyo Malabo yata ang mundoBinabasura ng iba ang siyang pinapangarap ko
(Chorus)Sa libu-libong pagkakataon na tayoy nagkasamaIilang ulit palang kitang makitang masayaNaiinis akong isipin na ginaganyan ka nyaSiguro ay hindi niya lang alam ang iyongTunay na halaga
wala lang. kinilig lang ako. Ganda pala meaning neto. :))))
"Wag kang matakot magmahal, wag mong itago yung nararamdaman mo para sa kanya. Lalo na kung yun ung taong nagbibigay ng sobrang saya at sobrang pagmamahal sayo. Wag mo ng pakawalan! at wag ka nang gumawa ng desisyon na sobrang pag sisisihan mo."
"Wag kang matakot magmahal, wag mong itago yung nararamdaman mo para sa kanya. Lalo na kung yun ung taong nagbibigay ng sobrang saya at sobrang pagmamahal sayo. Wag mo ng pakawalan! at wag ka nang gumawa ng desisyon na sobrang pag sisisihan mo."
Realidad.
"Minsan masama talaga ang sobrang pagmamahal eh, hindi mo alam nasasaktan mo na yung tao. Minsan nagiging makasarili ka. Hindi ba dapat na kung saan siya masaya, eh dun ka na lang din? Tanggapin mo na lang na hindi talaga kayo para sa isa't isa. Learn to move on. Learn to let go but not to forget. You must realize that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny."
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
IBA'T IBANG KLASE NG BABAE.
IBA'T IBANG KLASE NG BABAE.
by Meshelle Delfin Nambatac on Saturday, October 15, 2011 at 9:32am
- Pa-conyo
Sila yung super vain na kala mo everyday is “Foundation Day”. Magaling mag-ingles, hindi umiinom ng house water sa fastfood at kung magbihis e kala mo parating may party. Sila rin yung aakitin ka, pero hindi bibigay agad. Kailangan ng matinding humor kung talagang trip na trip mo sya iuwi.
- Top-of-the-line sosyalera
Sila yung mga pinanganak na may gintong kutsara sa bibig. Lumaki sa aircon, straight English kung magsalita pero mahilig din silang magmarunong na magaling silang mag-Tagalog pero ang sama talaga pakinggan. Di nakakarelate sa mga kanto jokes, nagtatawanan na ang mga tao di pa din nila nagegets yung joke. Lumaki raw sila sa kalye playing street games. Pero alam nyo kung ano yun? Soccer, baseball, cheering, etc. Pffft! Batang kalye nga. Mahirap abutin. Pero kung masusungkit, pwede rin!
- Feeling or Illusionaries
Mga mahilig mag-ilusyon na magaganda sila at may sinasabi sa buhay. Pinsan si ganito, kilala si ganyan, may lupain sa hibok-hibok para ma-impress lang ang kausap. Sila ata ang tinutukoy ng Parokya sa kanta nilang, “Silvertoes.” Madaling kausap at minsan, isang sabi lang, gora na yan. Walang paliguy-ligoy pa. 10/11 ang drama, sa sampung sinabi labing-isa mali. Dagdag-bawas magkwento kaya ingat lang lalo na kung kiss and tell sila.
- One-of-the-boys
Sila yung “ideal bestfriend”. Cowboy ba. Pwedeng biru-biruin, masarap kakwentuhan, naiintindihan ang kalokohan at kaberdehan ng kalalakihan, madalas gumamit ng “Pare” at “Bro” pag kausap mo. Pero sila rin yung hindi nagsasalita sa totoong nararamdaman nila. Ingat din ang mga boys sa mga ganitong girls — lalo na pag nahuhulog na pala sa inyo. Kawawa sila pag nasaktan. Hmmmm…
- Girlfriend-material
Sila yung sa unang tingin pa lang ng boys, abot-langit na ang respeto. Sila yung mga simpleng babaeng matipid ngumiti, makikipag-kwentuhan pero hindi may mystique pa rin. Na-cu-curious ang mga lalaki kung anong meron sa kanila that they keep on looking for more of that person. Minsan ang hirap kausap dahil pabago bago ng isip. Usually, sila ang naliligawan, sinusuyo hanggang mapa-oooohh… OO.
- Man-hater
Sa una, mapagkakamalan mo silang tibo dahil sobra silang “boyish.” Defense mechanism nila yun dahil galit sila sa past experience nila with an EX. Takot na daw sila masaktan. Mahirap din silang getlakin dahil matatakot ka sa kasungitan nila. Ang hindi mo alam, kulit lang ang katapat. Bibigay din yan. Pero syempre, sa mga lalaki, dapat armed ka with sympathy, timing and humor. Kahit hindi ka masyadong pogi, basta meron ka nito- malaki na ang chance mo.
- Pa-Girl
OA sa pagka girl, mayat-maya ang retouch inaabot ng 30mins sa CR kahit nasa mall kayo suklay ng suklay ng buhok, mayat maya nananalamin. Super freak-out sa kaartehan. Malakas mag react ng “yuck!! or eewwww” kapag nakakarinig ng mga maseselang usapin. Di nila gets o maapreciate ang ibang mga bagay bagay. Di mo alam kung makitid lang talaga utak nila o talagang slow sila makagets.. Basta ang hirap nila ispelengin! Ang masama eh kung 30 yrs old na pagirl pa din. Awts! Haha.
- Super Friendly
By the word itself, friendly siya sa lahat. Napakabait, Napakadaling i-aproach napakalawak ng pang-unawa on things. Masarap hingan ng payo. Pero minsan namimisinterpret ng iba. Aakalain ng guy na may gusto sa kanya si super friendly. Lalo na sa pagmimisinterpret sa kanila ng girls dahil pinagchichismisan sya ng masama, siguro kinaiinggitan kasi. Ang hirap din minsan ng masyadong mabait.
- Doble-Kara
Eto yung matino or mataray pag normal, pero pag nakainom eh bigla na lang sasayaw sa ibabaw ng mesa, or iiyak ng walang malinaw na dahilan, or magiging robot na hindi na alam ang nangyayari, gumagalaw lang pero di nagrerespond sa kapwa, meron ding biglang nang aaway pa. Nakakatakot sila painumin kasi nakakahiya sila kasama pag nalasing.
- Ms. Know-it-All
Gusto nilang i-impress ang lahat ng tao- especially ang mga kalalakihan, thinking na ma-ge-getsung nila ito. They think na mas matalino sila sa guy at kaya nila itong paikutin. Pero wag ka. A good guy can recognize a smart girl. Boys, ingat sa mga tulad nila dahil yung pagka-Know-it-all ay pwedeng mauwi sa paninira sa ibang tao at mga buhol-buhol na kasinungalingan.
- Problematic
Sila yung mga girls na kala mo kailangan lagi ng karamay o mag-aalaga sa kanila. Pa-emo minsan. Hanap lagi yung instant Knight-in-Shining-Armour. Dapat mag-ingat ang mga girls na ganito dahil pag problemado sila, mas madaling nakaka-score ang mga kalalakihan lalo na yung magagaling mambola.
- Babaeng-Bakla
Isa sa pinakagusto kong personality ng babae. Tipong laughtrip lagi pag kasama mo. Hindi maarte, bulgar magsalita kung minsan pero nasa timing. Punong puno ng humor. At minsan kung pikon ka maiinis ka sa pang-ookray niya pero ok lang yun lambing lang niya iyon.
- Silent but deadly
Maria Clara ang datingan, Di sila masyadong palakibo, or masalita. Kung magsasalita man eh parang sila lang nakakarinig sa sinasabi nila. Pero wag matahin. Nasa loob ang kulo nila. Talagang mabibigla ka sa matutuklasan mong ibang side ng girl na ito.
- Camwhore
Sila yung kahit saan mapunta eh magpipicture ng sarili niya maya’t maya. Kahit di na sa kanya yung cellphone puro mukha na nia ang laman. Iba-ibang anggulo pa pero magulo naman karamihan ng kuha. Pipiliting iphotoshop pero lalo lang sumasama. Tapos yung karamihang kuha naman eh nakaside lang yung mukha. Nakakapeke kasi ang ganung posing. Tapos di pa makukuntento may mga kuha ding nasa taas yung cam and nakaside pa din. Kasi nakakapayat yun, diba? Uuuyyy gagawin na nila yan lagi. Hahah! Daming picture sa fb or multiply na puro mukha lang naman. .na naka-side.
- Flexible
Eto yung girl na akala mo sa unang tingin, di mo mareach mukhang snobbish, and maselan, pero pag nakuha mo ang loob at nakilala mo ng husto eh di pala maarte co-boy din sya na hindi one of the boys. Kahit saan nakakarating mula Rockwell hanggang Divisoria. Walang arte, Kakain kahit saan mapa Chicken skin or fishballs sa kalsada. Ang sarap magkaroon ng girlfriend/kaibigan na tulad nila.
- Flirt
In tagalog, Malandi, Syota ng bayan. Game! Kadalasang sila yung mga liberated, bombshell na talagang pansinin manamit, magsalita, at kumilos. Madaling pumatol lalo na kung gwapo or mayaman.
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Saturday, October 15, 2011
Apple CEO Steve Jobs’ "12 Rules of Success"
Apple CEO Steve Jobs’ "12 Rules of Success"
- Do what you love to do. Find your true passion. Make a difference. The only way to do great work is to love what you do.
- Be different. Think different. Better to be a pirate than to join the navy.
- Do your best at every job. Don’t sleep! Success generates more success so be hungry for it. Hire good people with a passion for excellence.
- Perform SWOT analysis. As soon as you join/start a company, make a list of strengths and weaknesses of yourself and your company on a piece of paper. Don’t hesitate to throw bad apples out of the company.
- Be entrepreneurial. Look for the next big thing. Find a set of ideas that need to be acted upon quickly and decisively and jump through that window. Sometimes the first step is the hardest one. Just take it. Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
- Start small, think big. Don’t worry about too many things at once. Take a handful of simple things to begin with, and then progress to more complex ones. Think about not just tomorrow, but the future. Put a ding in the universe.
- Strive to become a market leader. Own and control the primary technology in everything you do. If there’s a better technology available, use it regardless of whether or not anyone else is using it. Be the first, and make it an industry standard.
- People judge you by your performance, so focus on the outcome. Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren’t used to an environment where excellence is expected. Advertise. If they don’t know about it, they won’t buy your product. Pay attention to design. We made the buttons on the screen look so good you’ll want to lick them. Design is not just what it looks like and feels like. Design is how it works.
- Ask for feedback from people with diverse backgrounds. Each one will tell you one useful thing. If you’re at the top of the chain, sometimes people won’t give you honest feedback because they’re afraid. In this case, disguise yourself, or get feedback from other sources. Focus on those who will use your product - listen to your customers first.
- Innovate. Innovation distinguishes a leader from a follower. Delegate. Let other top executives do 50% of your routine work to be able to spend 50% your time on the new stuff. Say no to 1,000 things to make sure you don’t get on the wrong track or try to do too much. Concentrate on really important creations and radical innovation. Hire people who want to make the best things in the world. You need a very product-oriented culture, even in a technology company. Lots of companies have tons of great engineers and smart people. But ultimately, there needs to be some gravitational force that pulls it all together.
- Learn from failures. Sometimes when you innovate, you make mistakes. It is best to admit them quickly, and get on with improving your other innovations.
- Learn continually. There’s always “one more thing” to learn.
Cross-pollinate ideas with others both within and outside your company. Learn from customers, competitors and partners. If you partner with someone whom you don’t like, learn to like them - praise them and benefit from them. Learn to criticize your enemies openly, but honestly.
Source: Steve Jobs: The Journey is the Reward by Jeffrey S. Young
Bookmark http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Steve_Jobs for more of his quotations.
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